tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post8307407345427065398..comments2023-08-10T10:00:06.738-04:00Comments on A Family Story: I am jumping in a little late...Amy Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16889460762363255735noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-42288436955529592202008-05-04T05:11:00.000-04:002008-05-04T05:11:00.000-04:00Amen I agree with all of it. I hate it when someon...Amen I agree with all of it. I hate it when someone tries to say how I do things in wrong. Especially when they make broad judgements on "all" people like that.my4kidshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05877891733197763535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-67478483127637972592008-05-02T07:13:00.000-04:002008-05-02T07:13:00.000-04:00Amen sista!Ciara loves HSM and Hannah too. She's ...Amen sista!<BR/><BR/>Ciara loves HSM and Hannah too. She's (almost) 6, so she doesn't understand all of it either, but she loves it!Stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12329896970141552645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-15832197954989061642008-05-02T01:20:00.000-04:002008-05-02T01:20:00.000-04:00again... it is all about choosing your battles.The...again... it is all about choosing your battles.<BR/><BR/>There's enough junk out there to be careful of --without having to invent problems. . . .<BR/><BR/>You're doing great, I think.Pamelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05404943895800549273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-82040286765041182702008-05-02T00:27:00.000-04:002008-05-02T00:27:00.000-04:00Amen indeed! This post deserves the Perfect Post ...Amen indeed! This post deserves the Perfect Post Award. I do not have little ones anymore, but I couldn't agree with you more!bichonpawzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09344322575991668081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-17453281314435276932008-05-01T18:53:00.000-04:002008-05-01T18:53:00.000-04:00We just had an issue with a boy in my son's school...We just had an issue with a boy in my son's school who said that my boy should throw out his Star Wars toys...they're of the devil. <BR/><BR/>My child, and I'm sure yours, enjoys these things, and in moderation...they are perfectly acceptable!!<BR/><BR/>I haven't entered the world of Hannah Montanna, yet...Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12524864741874868427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-11300190284956052812008-05-01T16:25:00.000-04:002008-05-01T16:25:00.000-04:00I think the entire thing is being blown way out of...I think the entire thing is being blown way out of proportion. Kaylie and Haley both love Hannah Montana as well as Miley Cyrus and so do I. Neither of those girls knows anything about those pictures and if they did, it would just be a picture to them<BR/><BR/>I didn't hear that other kids were watching it and make them both sit down and watch! They found it and introduced it to me! Of course I won't let them watch or do everything they want, but have what I consider to be a pretty good role model is perfectly fine with me. <BR/><BR/>We have to remember that Miley is 15. 15!! She is a child! Someone should have been there preventing that from happening, but they weren't, but why are we blaming her for it?Rachel (Crazy-Is)https://www.blogger.com/profile/05786360241354496729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-45583613427055684512008-05-01T13:17:00.000-04:002008-05-01T13:17:00.000-04:00Well stated Amy! I guess because I have boys at h...Well stated Amy! I guess because I have boys at home I never really paid much attention to all the drama that's swirling around the Hannah Montana/Miley Cirus stuff lately.....<BR/><BR/>Bottom line - you are the mother of your children and how you parent them is your business. You are a good Mom period. Who cares what other people think! <BR/><BR/>However you do have every right to be pissed - what is that blogger teaching their kids by being so judgemental of other Moms anyway?SJINCOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08145386056147611628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-27720414607255768432008-05-01T13:09:00.000-04:002008-05-01T13:09:00.000-04:00Amen to that! My sister is like the blogger and I...Amen to that! <BR/><BR/>My sister is like the blogger and I am more like you. Her and I have huge diffrences in parenting our kids. Her kids were not allowed to watch any Disney movies until they were well over the age of 4 (they are now 7 and 8) and she still only lets them watch the movies with her and on DVD so that she can skip over the scenes that are too sad, or scary, or evil, or intense. They only watch the parts where the character is singing in the forest with all the animal friends around and the happy ever after parts. My son (almost 4), on the other hand has watched Disney movies since birth. We live in a world where protecting our kids from all bad, scary and uncomfortable feelings is the accepted practice. I strongly believe that this is a disservice to our children. Life is not always flowers and roses and singing and happily ever after no matter how badly we wish that for our families. Children need to learn how to handle all these "unpleasant" feelings in a safe environment when they are young so that when we send them off into the great big scary world that we live in they don't have a breakdown because they don't know how to handle their feelings.<BR/><BR/>However, I respect my sister's parenting and she respects mine. I know to get her permission before I let her kids watch a movie when they are at my house (even if it is only "Snow Buddies") and she knows that she doesn't have to check with me before she puts in "Star Wars" for the kids to watch when they are at her house.<BR/><BR/>There are way to many ways now to read and hear that what we are doing in raising our children is going to ruin them when they are older. To many medias making us feel guility or question our parenting. None of us like being judged or told that we are doing something wrong. I've learned to tune all that out and parent my child how I feel in my heart is best for our family. I have also learned not to judge others that do it differently than me. <BR/><BR/>Amy, you are a great Mom! No matter how you do it! Who cares what others think.Jakihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01110469257471647952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-21645955554888555832008-05-01T09:50:00.000-04:002008-05-01T09:50:00.000-04:00PS: When I was growing up, Madonna was my favorite...PS: When I was growing up, Madonna was my favorite singer, so was Cyndi Lauper and Bananarama and look how I turned out. Stop laughing.Sabrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18019560376696661985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-37150917392943626712008-05-01T09:34:00.000-04:002008-05-01T09:34:00.000-04:00I gave up listening to parenting advice from 3rd s...I gave up listening to parenting advice from 3rd sources on October 25, 2002, the exact date my first child was born.<BR/><BR/>Here's my usual "screw you" response.<BR/><BR/>"Thanks for your advice, I appreciate it, however you have to understand that all kids and parents are different and you need to be able to have the flexibility to understand that when you're giving me advice".<BR/><BR/>or, my better response<BR/><BR/>"Oh, that's nice. Yeah, we totally don't do that...and probably won't. Ever"Sabrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18019560376696661985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-6353703451363437522008-05-01T08:35:00.001-04:002008-05-01T08:35:00.001-04:00Ack, Kellie said just what I was going to! You kn...Ack, Kellie said just what I was going to! <BR/><BR/>You know how I feel on the topic! Plus that blogger has zero cred with me. When you've been on The Real World you loose cred with me!Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02500011459345862059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-20499603636933068172008-05-01T08:35:00.000-04:002008-05-01T08:35:00.000-04:00I think the key to all this is that parents need t...I think the key to all this is that parents need to think and evaluate what their kids see, wear, etc. You ARE doing that so you don't need to worry. As long as we know what is going on and we make a decision we feel is best for our family, then we have done a good job a parents. You are not doing what that comment said....Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07156212038739784644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28991344.post-86255351390136781832008-05-01T08:20:00.000-04:002008-05-01T08:20:00.000-04:00Amen, sistah!!! Very well written!!Amen, sistah!!! Very well written!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com